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Bonita Keely - IBC Warrior

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Bonita was diagnosed in February, 2003, at the age of 35.

Bonita

Bonita is a wife and mother of two beautiful daughters. She has also devoted her life to nursing. As a registered nurse she has cared for other people in need for years. She is one of the most caring people I have ever known.

She was diagnosed while we were working in California after a 6 month misdiagnosis of "mastitis". A very generous physician at this small hospital in Northern California happened to listen to her complaints of a swollen breast and the lack of improvement after several rounds of antibiotics. He urged her to seek testing to rule out "Inflammatory Breast Cancer". None of us Registered Nurses had ever heard of this type of breast cancer. Sure enough, after days of tests and biopsies, Bonita was told that she had stage 4, IBC.

She has undergone many aspects of treatment and is at home loving her family and savoring every single day on this earth. We are all praying every single day, and have taken this experience into our practices as Registered Nurses. With teaching, not only to our patients, but also each other and the other professionals we encounter, we hope to help widen the awareness of IBC in the health care setting. If we can help just one person get the help they need sooner, without misdiagnosis, then maybe we will feel like we have done something for Bonita.

Please click on the title of the song in order to hear the music.

The Dance

Looking back on the memory of
The dance we shared 'neath the stars alone
For a moment all the world was right
How could I have known that you'd ever say goodbye

And now I'm glad I didn't know
The way it all would end
the way it all would go
Our lives are better left to chance
I could have missed the pain
But I'd of had to miss the dance

Holding you I held everything
For a moment wasn't I a king
But if I'd only known
how the king would fall
Hey who's to say you know
I might have chanced it all

And now I'm glad I didn't know
The way it all would end
the way it all would go
Our lives are better left to chance
I could have missed the pain
But I'd of had to miss the dance

Yes my life is better left to chance
I could have missed the pain
but I'd of had to miss the dance

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by Garth Brooks

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